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Perception = Reality

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What other people think of you is a big factor that decides how you are unconsciously shaped by others perception.

Perception makes reality.

Calling someone dumb will make them dumb as they appear in your reality not because they are objectively dumb, but because they have to conform to your beliefs. People don’t show up as who they are, they will show up as they way you think they are.

Thoughts dictate everything in consciousness, especially energized thoughts.

You are the creator, if someone close to you is struggling with something they can’t seem to get ahead of, you can change your thoughts about them and see them as their best self.

You can help people by lending a helping Mind, when I struggle as a coach to help someone in conversation, I will on that same day change my thoughts about the situation and induce miracles for them.

I help people in this way all the time and they don’t even have to know that I helped them. If they knew I was helping them through prayer or power of intention they may think it won’t work and sabotage the whole process.

Pay people compliments and hold people high by believing in them. They will heal as you see them joyfully. To heal is to make happy to become whole.

Every thought that is believed strongly will manifest one way or another.

When people say something positive about me, that attribute increases. When people say bad things about me, I reject those notions. But it’s hard to fight off negativity unless you can master the art of the reframe.

If you are a guru, don’t try to enlighten others by teaching them, it won’t work because as long as you are making yourself a guru, you are putting your student beneath you and he will never be enlightened. Just give Enlightenment by seeing your student as perfect and enlightened already.

Until next time,

Angus Baynham-McColl

Maximize Your Equity in the Dating Market by Making Many Approaches

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In the dating marketplace everything you do conveys information.

Men including me make the following mistake with regards to attracting women.

“We deny ourselves equity in the dating market by not making enough approaches.”

Let’s say for a second a specific man and woman are equal to a pair of starting cards.

Anywhere from AA to 72o.

If you are an average to a bit above average man who is let’s say a 7-6s and you want to date a woman who is anywhere from 10-10+ to AQ+ then you have to understand 2 things.

  1. You are of lower value and therefore have an equity disadvantage in relation to this range.
  2. But you still have fucking value and equity no matter how small it may be.

The key here is to make approaches all day long and realize that 41% equity is still equity.

In the long run the equities in most situations run close enough.

To say a woman is “out of your league” is a massive mistake.

Don’t deny yourself the equity you still have, you can have several outs and the cards can run out in your favour. Hell if you’re smart you can spin cards in your favour.

There are men who are like KK+ and AKs & AKo who still get rejected by women who are like 6-4s.

This is because dating is a game of massive variance.

To say that you will make fewer conversions in relation to a certain range of women is fine.

But you will still make conversions.

The key is to ignore short term variance and realize your equity in the dating market by making MANY approaches.

A man who makes 15 approaches a day will get a few numbers and a few dates each day.

It’s just math.

In poker losing one buy in is just another day of work. Same with winning a buy-in.

Success is made over millions of hands not hundreds.

The point is to have a better dating life, making many approaches is the way to go.

Until next time,

Angus Baynham-McColl

Looking on the Bright Side

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The people who tell me I look on the bright side too much are misguided, I have no guilt in looking at the best way to deal with the worst hands life has dealt me.

I don’t ever believe or dwell on or worry about the notion that life can get worse, and if it does seem that way for a minute, then I stop and think about the worst that can happen and I mentally accept it.

How?

By looking at the hidden advantage in every tough situation and asking, what is the best way to play these cards?

When the game of life seems out of reach for the time being and I can no longer foresee a win, I take the chance to play life to learn instead.

The masters and movers of life don’t ever worry about failure and pretty much walk like failure is not worth worrying about.

There are more lessons in the negative then there are in the positive.

At the gym reps till failure is the best way most of the great athletes have reached their success.

Life brings more riches with respect to accumulating wisdom while in the midst of adversity.

The more adversity overcame, the more glory that you can bestow upon a person for a life well lived.

In life you are best to shine your light in the midst of darkness because anyone can look at the positive when life is great.

Only a winner can keep fighting when life looks grim.

In closing I will say that I’m very grateful for adversity as that builds character.

I don’t envy people who have a walk in the park life.

Bring on more challenge, and more growth!

Until next time,

Angus Baynham-McColl

Great Sense of Humor = High Level of Consciousness

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“It’s funny because it’s true.” – Homer Simpson

Homer Simpson was at a higher level of consciousness than Frank Grimes.

For something to be funny it usually has to be true or out of this world ridiculous.

The joke has to be said with a tone that makes it funny. Vocabulary that is unusual makes people more likely to laugh. 

“So I kicked this guy….right on the side of his body. BOOM out the drivers side bus window he went.”

– Buddy from work talking about an altercation he was in against a bus driver.

Using the term “right on the side of his body” is what made that funny. If you saw the actual video of this guys rant you would die laughing. 

A decade ago I was watching the 2010 NHL Stanley Cup Final and the Hawks won the cup. Hawks forward Adam Burish said in a post game interview,

“I’m gonna punch that Chris Pronger next time I play him”. 

Pronger said in response “well where’s that gonna happen, the minors?” 

I pissed my pants laughing because it was a clever re-frame from Pronger of all people that humiliated Burish and it was very true.

Burish was a fringe NHL’er.

Pronger was a guy that didn’t give a fuck, and to be funny, it’s important to not care if your joke bombs or not. The way pronger said it killed me. …..Well…where’s that?…The Minors…???

The way you say something means more than what you say. I make my buddies laugh because of my reactions to their jokes on me.

One time in the locker room my hockey team was insulting me and I said….”Hey listen, if you don’t fuck off, I’mma tell you to fuck off again.”

To this day people still remember that one. 

To be able to come up with funny one-liners, you have to have a sense of what is true and funny at the same time.

Men insult each other all the time and don’t really mean it. Women compliment each-other all the time and don’t really mean it. 

My best friends convince other people who don’t know my age that I’m 35-45 all the time.

I went with my friends to the casino and buddy said that I could be their dad. I took that in stride. 

I know how to have a sense of humor about myself and I take things in stride. I’m not self-deprecating and I’m actually more self-absorbed than anything because I want to be the big guru.

I have a healthy balance of being seriously funny.

I’m in a higher state because I find humor in many things. I know when to put a lid on it and respect people as well. 

I find it funny that most people who flip the bird at traffic on the highway are more enlightened than most of those serious guru’s out there. 

Life is a video game, and this means you should have fun while you play it.

Once when I was in nirvana while in a manic phase, I saw the people around me living lives of quiet desperation.

The more serious you are, the more asleep you are. The less fucks you give, the more fucks you get.

Or to put it another way, the less you care about things you have no control over, the more life will arrange those areas for your betterment.

Its key to see that God has a sense of humor in this divine movie we are making together. 

Being serious means you can’t laugh or make people laugh.

We can find serious people in psych wards, as they get better one of the signs is that they can laugh and not be so serious. 

In my group of buddies we crack jokes all the time.

References are also a good way to make people laugh. 

I saw a pink moped one summer while in the car with my buddies, so I said “that must be Tommy Vercetti.”

The reference was nostalgic and funny at the same time.

The car burst out laughing because it was a joke referring to GTA vice-city.

The joke was said in 2018 and the reference was from 2003. That’s what made it funny because nobody would think about it like that. 

Another joke I cracked was about a buddy who I loved to roast, first I watched his hockey and he was struggling to make moves and get better. 

So being the savage that I am, I said “you know what to do, but you don’t know how to do it.” 

Buddy pissed his pants and the guy I insulted was so pissed off because he had too much ego to laugh at himself. He got defensive which made it funnier for the group. 

Keeping a sense of humor about yourself is a major strength when you are with other men. 

When dating women it’s also good to be able to take things in stride. Own your mistakes and keep moving forward.

The re-frame is a great way to insult someone back (all in good fun) or agree and amplify to show you are laid back and don’t give a shit about what other people think. 

The guy who can’t take a joke and appreciate humor is the guy who is stuck in lower states.

Another way I used to express humor is to commentate hockey while playing NHL with friends on my xbox and say things like, “and Sid is dumped to his ass”, or “fucking Jimmy Howard can’t make a save.” The unprofessionalism and blatant swearing about the play from a wanna be NHL broadcaster made it funny. 

The ability to laugh indicates higher consciousness. 

Connor McGregor is highly conscious, sure he has a big ego and a big mouth, but ego is actually a strength. 

Robin Williams was one of the greatest entertainers of all time and he could think of the funniest things because he was either in super high or low states. 

I have manic-depression which allows me to come up with funny statements without much effort. I have a gift for seeing contrast because of bipolar. I use this to make light of serious things. 

When my mood is above the equator I’m very funny. 

Being too serious indicates that I’m at a low point or state of being. 

Affirmations and visualizations that are funny will have more manifesting power than neutral ones.

Without being able to laugh or listen to music life would be a mistake. 

If you want a Lamborghini visualize driving 200MPH and getting a $10,000 speeding ticket and spitting in the cops face.

Picture yourself going into your $10,000,000 account to get the car out of the impound and then going to the insurance company and hearing that your premium is now 7K a month.

Picture your billionaire self going to the casino and playing $1-2NL and bullying the table. Make the raises $75 to go. Piss them off, crack their aces with 7-2o.

Make the raises and break the aces!

Until next time,

Angus Baynham-McColl